Month: December 2016

The Hudson Valley With Small Children

Adventures & Travel Family Inspiration

The Hudson Valley With Small Children

Traveling with small children is insanity in the making, yet I love it. Well, I love travel and I have kids that I love, so that equals loving traveling with small children in my head. The first time we took Brady across the country on an airplane I had a panic attack in the bathroom and sent frantic messages during the trip to my mom and sister that he would not listen to anything I said. He was 18 months old. Ha, it’s par for the course.

Since then, we’ve sat out on a few vacations and I’ve gotten a little more savvy with my research and planning (built in down time and space for kids to run is hugely important for our family).

Here are my notes and tips from our family vacation we took June 2016 where we road-tripped to the Hudson Valley, NY and rented a cozy cottage in the country. Every family flows differently, this is a snapshot of our “flow.” Enjoy!!!

 

The house we rented was perfect for our family of four. I loved it so much when we arrived that I cried. I could not believe we got to stay there for a week!!! It was complete with cozy nooks, window seats, books galore, games, kids toys, gorgeous views of the meadow behind the house and comfy beds.

I loved drinking coffee in the morning in this house and the coziest table was in the kitchen that looked out the window. It was perfect for dreaming. Nikki, the house owner, was so hospitable and we even got to meet her one day when she had to repair the swing in the yard. Her design touches were so inviting and enjoyable.

Cozy morning cartoons
Cozy morning cartoons.

 

Kitchen Window
The view from our kitchen window.

 

Kid's Room
The kids checking out “their” room.

 

Trampoline fun in the yard.
Trampoline fun in the yard.

 

Yard fun with Daddy
More yard fun with daddy.

 

dreamy kitchen table
Cozy table in the kitchen where I wrote and dreamed one morning.

 

meadow painting
Meadow painting in the kitchen.

 

The last night at the house.

 

♡Fun things that I researched in the area. Time noted is drive time from Red Hook, the town our house was in.♡ 

What we did:

Greig Farm (5 minutes away). They had pick your own fruit, we picked strawberries.  BBQ truck was cool (pictured below) and there are goats to feed with a cute shop where we got great local syrup and jam to bring home. They also have a Saturday market that we didn’t get to.

Poets Walk Park (in Red Hook). 2 miles of trails, we allowed 2 hours at least. Breathtaking Hudson River Views, bring water! A dreamy place with benches to read and think.

Montgomery Place (in Red Hook). Recommended by our Airbnb host, Nikie, “Historic Hudson Valley site. Beautiful park and spectacular waterfalls. Very nice hike.”  These grounds were breathtaking. Gross bugs by the water but we had fun exploring, sitting on the porch and taking in the falls.

Village of Rhinebeck Has many kid-friendly restaurants, shopping, Sunday am farmers market (10-2). I went to the farmers market and it was worth the special trip but parking was crazy hard. Town is adorable but all the shops close early. Makes for peaceful strolls down the street, but would have liked to browsed after dinner.

Lake Taghkanic State Park (15 minutes away). Has lake, beach, playground, paddle boats. Loved this place. It felt HUGE! Cleanest bathrooms ever. My kind of beach, park your car, walk 10 feet and sit under a tree in the shade on a beach! Loved it.

↠Town of Woodstock -Would have loved to had more time here. We didn’t have a plan and were hungry so that’s always a lethal combo but we went to the local pizza shop and had beer and pizza and the world was ok again. We had new “toys” and markers for the kids in our bags. Yay, us! We saw a community drum circle on the main street and felt very “Woodstock” to me. I wanted to tell everyone to hold on while I snuck in a yoga class, but that obviously never happened. Made our way to Opus 40 it was really cool and different, great for adults and kids.

Red Hook Lunch
Lunch spot in Red Hook.

 

Poet's Walk
Poet’s Walk, Where the cranberry fight took place.

 

Poet's Walk
Poet’s Walk

 

Lake Taghkanic State Park

 

Lake Taghkanic State Park – beach!

 

montgomery place
Exploring Montgomery Place…

 

Montgomery Place views

 

Sawkill Farm, Red Hook
Sawkill Farm Store – where I got to talk soap techniques with the shop keeper!

 

Woodstock, NY
Woodstock, NY

 

My travel “journal” is below and is basically an assortment of phrases and words that I write down each day on vacation. I’ve surrendered to the fact that I don’t really write much on vacation but want to so badly. So I bottle up a few words, to me, the only words that matter. These may not make much sense but you get the idea!

Saturday, June 11, 2016 Roadtrip begins! “Is there blood in blood inside blood?” Asked Brady in the car. Arrive at Spring Lake Road house…BEAUTIFUL!!! Kids love it. Cool kids room. Awesome toys! Amazing discovery. Would you rather? game. Books galore.

Sunday, June 12, 2016 Cocoa puffs, turtle battles. Connect four. Rhinebeck Farmers Market. Opus 40…”Whichever path you choose will be the right one,” says the older man. Woodstock. Catskill pizza. Community Drum circle.

Monday, June 13, 2016 Poets walk park. Kids fighting over cranberries. Meadow in the meadow. Dead mouse on trail. Long meadow nap. Brady and I found play doh in the house. Trampoline and swing fun in the yard. Snake! Dinner at Terrapin in Rhinebeck. So good and fun! Kids were awesome at super fancy restaurant. Ice cream. “Hey! How’d the moon get here?” Turtle batters on the street.

Tuesday, June 14, 2016 Catskills…Kaaterskill falls. Crackers. Crackers. Crackers. Hold my sweatshirt. Crackers. Ninja battles on viewing deck. “Take a video of me. Let me see it.” Beautiful waterfalls! Dangerous cliff. Skipping stones. Throwing rocks. Snake! Chipmunks everywhere. Pink hair. Snacks in car. No service. Dunkin Donuts. Beer. Wine. Fussy Meadow. Poor kid needs to sleep! Turtle paints. Beach toys. Beer on deck with Jack Johnson. The Sandlot.

Wednesday, June 15, 2016 Relaxing morning, coffee on deck, breakfast in sun room. Turtle battle. I was Mikey. Lake Taghkanic State Park. Playground. Brady bug bite. Beautiful lake and beach. Saw cabins and tents. Sandlot part 2. Smores.

Thursday, June 16, 2016 Greig farm strawberries. Tastebuds lunch. Bug collection. Flat Iron. Sticker book. Tick. Super fun hangout night with wine and Battleships and Connect Four and Bubble Guppies.

Friday, June 16, 2016 Early rise, super tired Brady. Montgomery Place – amazing views of Catskills & Hudson. Cool porch. Gross flies. Waterfalls. Gigi Market with cool local buys. Crazy screaming kids. Goats. “Is hay dirty?” Airstream lunch with wiffel ball. MUCH needed naps for both kids. Blue skies, amazing weather. Last afternoon in our house. What a treat this house is. Meadow said at Montgomery Place about a squirrel, “Chipmunk! Chipmunk! Chipmunk! I’m just kidding.”

 

Good Links that helped me research and plan: 

General www.redhookhudsonvalley.com

For Kids Activities: http://hudsonvalley.kidsoutandabout.com/content/top-20-places-take-kids-hudson-valley

The one that started this whole idea: http://cupofjo.com/2010/07/hudson-valley-trip/

The family road trip packing list from The Art of Simple: http://theartofsimple.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/packing-list.pdf

I hope this inspires your next family adventure! xo

Identity Inspiration Motherhood

Being Alone

Being alone feels indescribably unusual. I even bring my kids to doctor appointments if necessary. I have a supportive spouse and mom but they both work full time and sometimes I just need to bring my little adventure seekers everywhere.

Honestly, this was my top fear (tied with money) when Sean and I were contemplating my leaving the paid workforce – what would I do if I got sick? I already have personal difficulty calling in favors and now we’re essentially creating a life where I need to ask for help for everything ranging from long bathroom breaks to recovery from illness.

Before I came into the doctor’s office this afternoon I enjoyed a quiet Kind bar in the car in silence. I felt the urge to put the radio on or check my phone but I resisted. It was tricky. I watched a branch with no leaves blow in the wind – that is one of my favorite things.

I think to myself, “This is bad that it feels so strange to be alone.” And then I correct… “Isn’t it interesting that it feels unusual to be alone?” I’m always thrown back to my freshman year of college when I find myself alone and outside of my house these days. I loved wandering the Western Pennsylvania campus solo with a coffee and my textbooks. I’m immediately 18 again.

And then I smile and think how ironic a solo trip to the doctor turns into a mini vacation.

If You’d Asked Me Then

Family Identity Inspiration Motherhood

If You’d Asked Me Then

If you’d asked me then

Way back when

What motherhood might hold

My younger self may have told

Stories of hopes and dreams

And what I thought it might mean

To care for a small child.

A little fun, a little wild.

If you’d asked me then

I’d never have known

About a love so deep

A heart to keep

Lessons that drive me mad

Feelings I didn’t even know I had

How it all comes rushing past

A love so strong, so fast.

If you’d asked me then

I’d be shocked at the grounding we felt through breastfeeding

A conversation with no words,

We found deep meaning.

A lesson in converting food into energy

A lesson in letting go, letting be.

If you’d asked me then

What this magical piece of the universe that we named Brady might become

I may have guessed some dreamy profession just for fun.

But if you ask me now what this child will “be”

I’ll tell you the truth:

He is the architect of the authentic me.

 

Creating Identity Inspiration Spiritual Exploration

Simply Inspired

People often tell me that I’ve inspired them. It used to feel like a burden when I heard those words, that I had to live up to the expectation that was placed on me. That I had to keep coming up with ways to inspire. But the truth is, motivation comes naturally to me and I believe it’s a marriage of my mom being motivational my whole life and the combination of several of my personal archetypes – specifically those of artist, lover, mother, pioneer, poet, seeker and student.

Archetypes fascinate me. FASCINATE me! Scroll through this link and I bet you may find some interesting stories about yourself too. It’s my intention to use them as an underlying theme in may of my blog posts.

I have an urge to share my spiritual journey and story as talking it out helps me propel forward again and again. Without your support, I am stagnate. We are all connected.  The journey of our spirit, of your spirit, its evolution, its development, the mystery of it all is what I spend most of my waking hours pondering and molding and holding and dissecting.

I’ve always been WAY more interested in the intangible and un-quantifiable than things you can actually see with your eyes and measure with logic. I’m also incredibly inarticulate with the spoken word. I believe there is a direct correlation between the two for me. I’ve often felt misunderstood. I see all this as an indication that I have much more development and growth in the area of my fifth chakra & throat and there is so much for us to explore together.

My intention is that I share with you so much cool information that may not have made it’s way to you through conventional learning methods but to know that it’s out there and to chew on it for brain candy.

I’ve been inspired and I’m hopeful to inspire you to find nuggets and gems to feel curious about and explore further on your own. The seeker and pioneer within me see the seeker and pioneer within you!